Taking charge of myself
When someone shouted at you and you shouted more, that's the
reaction. My response should be mine not based on others people's behavior. If you
keep on changing reference to other people needs, then I won't have my
personality. E.g. when you are passing through the corridor, you say hello to
next person but he did not response. It could be that person is shy or he is
having bad day, etc. You have a good personality, trait, quality. Keep doing
because it's your nature. We observe their negativity and give up our quality.
Ask yourself, am I courteous? humble? Our behavior is not for other people, it
is for ourselves.
How I want to think, behave in every relationship? We want to make
everyone happy, which is good and we say when they are happy, I will be happy.
When you say that, it means your happiness depends on other's people.
A girl gets married and her family members told her to quit her
job which she did but she is unhappy. She realized that their family is still
unhappy even she quits her job for them. She chose not to work for them, so she
was not happy and sending the negative energy to family. You can't make other
people happy by doing anything to them, you have to choose to be happy while
doing it. Create a right thought and do it.
When you are watching TV
or movie, you are keeping off your mind for some time. When you have a toothache
and you watch TV, you will forget the pain but as soon as you switch off the
TV, you will find the pain. When you are stress, you feel happy if you go for
shopping, actually it’s a temporary deviation. The stress, pain will again come
back because it was not resolved or healed. Let’s be aware of our thoughts, TV,
alcohol is surpassing our thoughts, it’s not bringing happiness. Let's take the charge of ourselves.
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